Introduction
As a clinic nurse
and mother of small children, it is vital that I am at my top health game at
all times. I have people depending on me for their health and wellness, having
myself be lacking in health and wellness is not acceptable. As a nurse, my job
is emotionally, mentally and physically draining; it is important that my
psychological and physical health is in excellent condition.
However, working in healthcare, I have found
that spiritual health is equally important; diagnosing children with terminal
diseases is difficult emotionally, but having a healthy spirituality is
important to me as I need another outlet to explain why bad things happen to
innocent people. Having the realization that God is there for support and
guidance helps me on a daily basis as at times there are no easy explanations
for many occurrences.
Areas
that I need to continue to focus on is the psychological aspect of wellness.
While I am an extrovert and love helping people, I keep a lot of my emotions
buried and not addressed which eventually will cause problems. However, being
an optimist, I feel that helps control the negative emotions as I am
continually removing negative aspects and having the positive replace the
pessimistic aspects.
Assessment
Earlier in the term I had assessed my health in the
domains and felt that I scored fairly well in all areas. To assess again at
this point, I would lower my scores physically and psychologically due to the
fact I have had a difficult pregnancy. In my pre-pregnancy state, I was
extremely healthy physically, spiritually and psychologically. Due to having a
difficult pregnancy, my physical wellness is lower due to pre-eclampsia, pregnancy-induced-hypertension
and borderline gestational diabetes. While I have worked very hard to control these
diagnoses, unfortunately they are out of my control at this time.
However,
because I have minimal control over the physical aspect other than following
bed rest and a strict diet that I have always followed, my spiritual health has
increased as I needed an outlet to focus my time on. During these past few
weeks, I have been unable to attend masses due to my hypertension, yet having
moments throughout the day to focus on my religion and spiritual well-being.
Psychologically, I also would decrease my score to around a six or seven on a
scale of ten due to frustrations of not being able to control my health in
manners that I am typically able to. However, after the pregnancy is completed
next week, I feel that my scores will improve physically and psychologically
due to the removal of the stress of the pregnancy on my body.
Goal Development
Physically, my goal is to get back to at least my pre-pregnancy
weight; this weight is proper for my height and had me in an appropriate
location on a body mass index scale. Another goal that affects me physically is
continuing to not consume fast food. During my pregnancy, I minimally consumed
fast food, with the exception of a trip through Subway, but continuing to not
eat the fast food grease will help me physically stay healthy as well.
A psychological goal for me is to continue to reduce
negativity and replace with positive reinforcements. This is one is a bit more
difficult at times; my sister and I are very close, yet complete opposite
personalities. While I have an optimistic mind-set, she is consumed with a
pessimistic mind-set; this is difficult to be around frequently as I firmly
believe that it only takes one negative person to ruin anything. Another
negative aspect to remove is minimizing how much of the media I am exposed to;
as of late, a majority of the news reports are tragic, while it is important to
know and understand what is going on in the world, minimal exposure is best for
myself. There will always be tragedy and negativity on the news, minimizing
negative exposure and focusing on the positives in my life will benefit my
psychological health.
Spiritually, I feel I am in a great place; I have
excellent understanding of my spirituality and find it to be in great health.
However, after the pregnancy is complete, starting to attend the regular masses
again with my family will be beneficial for me and my family as this is an
activity we do together to give thanks and say prayers for those in need.
Practices for Personal
Health
To foster growth in my physical domain, I plan on
reducing my diet to a normal intake since I had increased consumption to
provide sustenance for my child, but continuing the current diet regimen as it
controlled my blood sugars excellently. Another implementation that will begin
will be a walking regimen with my spouse; during the nice weather, we can have
family time and take walks in the evening to promote health and wellness, but
have interaction together away from technology.
Growth in the psychological domain will include
minimizing exposure to the negative news reports, while I continue to pray for
those in need and suffering on a daily basis, I am recognizing there is a
problem and there are people in the world who need help, I do not need the
negative mind-set clouding what is currently going on around me. Another
practice will be continued time to clear my mind and have mini-meditation
times. By taking a few minutes daily to clear my mind and regain focus, I can
stay on track and keep a healthy, clear mind.
Spiritually, I have many practices to continue the
health. By continuing attending regular masses and praying for those who are
suffering and need love, yet giving appreciation for the wonders in my own
life, I can maintain a healthy spiritual relationship with God. Religion is
very important in my family, and I contribute this to why I have such a healthy
spiritual domain.
Commitment
Over the next few months, I have put time in my calendar
to take ten to fifteen minutes on a nearly daily basis to reflect on where I
have progressed or regressed. Continuing the meditation practices, and focusing
on the importance of family I feel will help continue the progress as I have positive
reinforcements in my life striving me to do better not only for myself, but for
my family.
Hello Becky,
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading you final project. We have alot in common with the goals we want to achieve.I have a huge problem with carbs and sugar intake in my diet and I have made the promise to myself to back back as much as I can. I also read that church is important to you and your family. It is always great to hear about other people spiritual journey. Good luck on all your goals that you made for yourself.
Great post,
Leena
Hey Becky!
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your final project! Just having a baby a few months ago, I can understand some of the things you are going through. I also have two older children and taking care of myself is number one although many times my health seems to come last. I wish you luck with the birth of your newest addition next week! I hope you will consider posting a picture under your blog so we can all see your precious new bundle! I really liked what you said about continuing your meditation and using the positive reinforcements in your family to help keep you on track. These are things that I can relate too and am trying to do as well. Good luck Becky! I will pray for a safe and swift birth next week!
Jo